I think the Hollywood lesbian scene pretty much reflects what's happening in the real world. Bisexuals seems to only be bisexual until they meet a man.
No doubt the marriage to Depp was a very calculated move and certainly the easier option.
As I've said for years, they can do whatever they want to do -- but I wish they would shut the fuck up and do it privately.
Lady Gaga is "proudly and always" bisexual but only with a man. I don't follow Cynthia Nixon private life, but i've never heard rumors about her being a lesbian during the SATC run. The problem is not when she retracted her claim, is when she did it in the first place. Ex what some poster above posted about Amber Heard with the "ex lesbian with a man" title. They've always been bisexual to begin with, whether they like it or not.
Vanessa Carlton is proudly bisexual but married to a man. Why even make those inane proclamations when they are in longterm relationships with men? Really, it's an easy concept to understand to anyone who ever has sexual thoughts/impulses.
(Allegedly she still has girls on the side.) Did he join our team and it's a double-beard?
(Some were claiming this about him and Vanessa Paradis, and his career is basically reduced to playing the FLAMING-Gay-but-you-can't-say-that-because-we-need-the-kiddies'-$$$ Jack Sparrow in between flops.) Or is it really the romance we're told it is?
Hell if I know, but it seems a little more suspicious than say, Amanda Peet, who certainly enjoyed the company of both Sarah Paulson and Lauren Holly (hope Sarah and Lauren didn't have TOO many cat fights over Amanda while making "What Women Want") but seems legitimately settled down with her Go T-producer hubby. No offense, Caitlyn.)I still say the Amber Heards and Anne Heches are a major problem to the cause -- because they make it look like being gay is indeed a choice that one can turn on and off like a lightbulb (or, in Amber's high profile bullshit case, can " cure" yourself of it long term and live a happy "normal" hetero life, vomit.
Of course, she's still pic'd with Sarah now and then (still looking like she might be up for a round) and Lauren supposedly has this "Hollywood Wives Club" she's in, so maybe the girls don't quit cold tuna, but just go from being "lesbians" to being "married women with an occasional 'friend'."Still selling out, though, and rather depressing. She and Depp are not selling an open minded alternative marriage, they are playing Mr and Mrs for all its glory).
[quote]So many are in the closet or won't come out.
They're different from the gay men It's easier for gay women to fly under the radar.
Not that lesbians necessarily have the same cause anyway so maybe they don't care.