Try to be a gentleman and avoid names like Big D#$*2017 and Iwill F#$*Uall Night. If you weren't lucky on one site simply move on to the next one.3 Don't send out boring messages like Hi and Hey There or Hey, whats up?! Most sites have an unevenly distributed member base throughout many regions and countries.
I promptly canceled my account with Ashley Madison. In this I would be contacted by a self-described professional women who claimed not to care about our age difference. Once you purchase a good amount of credits, you will get a lot of massages or winks in the beginning to make you use up your credits to send massages.
The woman was just looking for a man who would demonstrate a caring behavior and share love with her. Of course, you not going to get any massages back almost 90% of those female profiles are fake. I had a better luck on CL with free posts One guy wrote that it takes time and commitment to have success with this site and I can't agree more.
So no matter what it makes sense to join several sites and check them out. When I began on AM I was contacted by several women a day. All were decades younger than me and when challenged about the age thing, they said it did not matter. Some asked that I go through a verification process that would assure them that I was legitimate and provide them a way to backtrack to me if I turned out to be threatening or actually abused them. I discovered that those who requested that I validate myself were willing to guide me through the process.
5 - Avoid dating sites and apps whose puprose is not to arrange an affair. Affair webstes have a member base with people who know that you are married and they are okay with this! First off, I am an unusual case because of my age, late 70's. The process required that I identify myself and supply a credit card. Each woman asked me to validate through a web site of her choosing.
Now, it is clear that AM doesn't mind these people being on the site and lets them do their scams.
The scam is that these girls will message you and even go off site and then after teasing you with photos, they say they are in town and want to meet but first, you have to process through this site for "their" safety. It is just a way for whoever is pretending to be that person - probably a 300 pound dude in New Jersey in his tidy whities- and once you pay the , the goal has been met.
Finally Ashley Madison offered to provide a work around.
I could send 0 to a place in the Philippines using money gram. I've been using for years and had a lot of luck on it and tho id never stop using that site, I am now considering paying the extra membership fee for ash mad because it really aint half as bad as I was expecting.
Believe it or not but women don't get turned on by those pictures! I can't believe guys don't even add a picture and expect women to answer their messages. 4 Double or tripple your chances if you were not lucky on one site.
If a woman asks you to send out pictures you can do that of course but doing it without being asked for will result in instant rejection. And you username should be something nice, nothing too sexual. Saphrina, Victoria Milan or My Secret Affairs are some good options for that.
I did obtain a validation with one woman with whom I have had no further contact.