Notice that the word is common, not polite or considerate.
You need to know how to dish out rejection in an appropriate way.
Image source:i Stock Controversial opinion, I know, but I'm a pretty ardent supporter of executing a breakup vis-à-vis text message--under the right circumstances, of course.
Chances are, you just realized that you and this person are not really a great fit--they didn't, like, cheat on you with your best friend, run over your dog with their car, and throw your laptop out the window (if they did do this, however, you have every right to make it very, very personal).
Just let them know that you liked hanging out with them, but it's not really working out for you anymore so you think it's best to move on.
Unless you really feel like this is what's holding you back, don't do this--it'll just make them think that you'll be coming back to them when those things have been resolved.
Image source:i Stock You might think that, since your relationship wasn't really official, it's okay for the breakup to not be totally official either. The relationship might not have been clearly defined, but the breakup definitely needs to be.
When your goal is to make a clean break from the person who won’t let go (or any prospect, for that matter), never argue or defend yourself.
You have to accept the bad guy or girl role unless you want to create an even angrier person out of your former prospect.
Plus, in my own personal experience, I've often found that ghosting makes the breakup process longer.
This is because there's no real closure, and as a result, the person who gets ghosted is left wondering what they did wrong for much longer than they would be if they'd just been broken up with straight-up.
This is not okay--think about it, how much would a late-night hotline bling from a past hookup who broke up with you mess with your mind?
By Judith Silverstein, Michael Lasky The Internet is a strange place, and what seems abnormal for in-person experiences is completely common on the Internet.
It’s an old platitude, but it’s true: Breaking up is hard to do. Breaking up with someone you aren’t even really dating, technically. Particularly if you want to end things–after all, breaking up is, by most people’s definition, the act of ending a relationship.