Or do you just feel pressure to try and keep up with your buddies?These are important questions to answer before deciding what kind of relationship to pursue.In the end you want to make sure you’re doing what you want and not fulfilling the wishes of others.
You may lose a few girls rather quickly this way (don’t be surprised if some girls say they’re not looking for anything serious, yet mysteriously stop calling after this conversation), but that’s exactly the point.
You’re filtering out women who aren’t compatible with what you want.
Instead, you’ll be free to find the girl (or girls) who fit your lifestyle.
Double check your status Let’s say you told the girl on the first date you weren’t looking for anything serious. While it’s great that you started off on the same page, after a few weeks or months you’re going to want to revisit this topic. To make sure she’s still okay with the arrangement.
There’s no right answer here, the point is to get clear on exactly what it is you want. While figuring out what kind of relationship you want it’s also important to figure out why you want that type of relationship. Or do you tell yourself that’s what you want because it’s what society/your family/your friends tell you to have?
Is casually hooking up with random women truly how you want to spend your time?
Then there are times when a girl truly isn’t looking for anything serious, but as time goes on she begins to feel differently.
She starts feeling more connected and becomes interested in something more.
For these reasons it’s a good idea to revisit the topic of your relationship status after you’ve been seeing each other for a while.