Just like men find women with big breasts and curves attractive, women find alpha males irresistible.There’s a magnetic quality that attracts women to fall for an alpha male.
Most of the time, those hot babes will be the ones who approach you, because they will be attracted by the confidence of your body language. Women love leaders and they love a guy that can make decisions and who’s decisive in his actions.
Try as much as possible in life to take on more of a leadership role. It could be at work and leading the way in terms of your job, or applying for the management position in your company. It might be changing careers, leaving a job you hate, climbing a massive mountain, jumping out of an airplane, or getting up in front of thousands of people and talking.
They are all very unattractive qualities that are very anti-alpha.
They show that you are unsure of yourself and the world around you.
Too many guys are being brought up in this almost metro-sexual world of being effeminate, too scared to get their hands dirty or tell women how they really feel.
We’re too busy on our laptops, putting moisturizer on our face, and going out and hoping that just by being nice to women will get us noticed.
I know because I’ve been trapped in this situation for quite some time in my younger days.
I didn’t seem to have much success with girls but I always thought I was doing things – only the world was somehow “wrong”. Looking back it’s clear to me that I was a stereotypical nice guy thoroughly indoctrinated by all the nonsense I was bombarded with regarding women and dating.
Carlos Xuma is a dating and attraction adviser, as well as a black belt martial arts instructor and motivational life counselor. Game™, a system he's been teaching for the last 10 years with his programs and seminars, and he shows you how to use your authentic personality to attract the opposite sex, and make enhance your entire LIFESTYLE - to see and feel the Big Picture of attraction and success in social dynamics.