Cases of BPD are at an all-time high because you reject your true self. You fail to accept who you are as an imperfect being.
This is the struggle of not only Borderlines, but almost all men and women.
No matter how awesome of a person you may be, there’s no guarantee that your relationships will work out.
But, improving your mindsets and core values will give you better relationships.
Also, forget about all the potential you think your partner has. This is why it’s vital that you work on your inner core every single day. Therefore, you must change the way you think about relationships. You wouldn’t be here if that wasn’t the case, right? They come and go as they please, and there’s nothing you can do about it.
This is because the only thing that matters is what’s going on right now at this moment in your BPD or Bipolar relationship. A BPD relationship is already chaotic enough as it is. Study the mindsets that I teach and you’ll see where you make mistakes. I want you to spend time daily fixing these bad mindsets that can cause your partner to flee. Unfortunately, this good-natured character can cause you to develop this “white knight” attitude. You meet this person who you know can be amazing (your mind is in the future). Often times in BPD and Bipolar relationships, less is more.
I blame social media and bad parenting, along with other factors.
We have a society where everyone is trying to be someone that they’re not. Most people focus on a future self instead of who they are right now in the present moment.I can smell my boyfriend’s cold treatment coming for days.He asks for space and I give it, but as soon as I’m gone, he’s messaging me, giving me backlash and shiz.We had another conflict the other night, and I wanted to try to make it right.But, I immediately remembered the lessons you teach. ” As you begin to replace your old mindsets with the ones that I teach, your confidence will improve.For example, here’s a message I got from a woman who went through my Better BPD Relationships course: Thank you for your BPD course.