He may worry that you won’t think him confident or attractive enough.____Men like that have been programmed to believe that they finish last. Pay attention to the men who respect your limits and look for the ones who don’t use sex talk to get your attention.
That crowd may be smaller and quieter but it sounds like it’s there that you will find what you’re looking for.
It can be difficult to stop and look something up if you are in the moment.
In the future, maybe “Doin’ It Well” should market a sex-chat mouse pad.
123: have sex anally, vaginally and orally420: smoke marijuana and have sexathl: athleticbb: bareback (sex, usually anal, without a condom)bbw-: big, beautiful womanbf: boyfriendbj: blow jobbttm: bottomc: cock (ex.
8C= 8 inch penis)c2c: cam to cam or cock to cock Crystal: crystal methd/d or ddf: drug and disease freediscrete: sex that is kept secret, no strings attacheddl: down low, similar to discretedwm: dominant white maleff: fuck friendsgf: girlfriendgl: good lookinghead: oral sexhj: hand jobhwp-: height and weight proportionateiso: in search ofj/o: jack off, masturbate togetherl4: looking forlkn: lookingltr: long term relationshipm4m or, m2m: male for male, male to malembm: married black malemwm: married white maleneg: HIV negative NSA: no strings attachedpnp: party & play, sex with drugs, usually crystal methpoz: HIV positiver/t: real time, sex now, offlinesmth: smooth or hairlesssub: submissivevers: versatile (top or bottom for anal sex)vgl: very good lookingws: watersports (still confused? ) For what it’s worth, we found that men seem to use more acronyms than women, especially on the men seeking men pages in personal ads.
Of course, like us, most people can look these up online to determine their meaning, but “Doin’ It Well” thought we’d help our readers out by providing a cheat sheet for quick reference.
Sometimes abbreviations are ignored, especially if someone doesn’t know what they mean.
You probably won’t be received well if they are talking about a TV show and you ask who’d like an online sexual encounter. While being familiar with popular abbreviations used online may be helpful in navigating dating sites, don’t be afraid to ask for clarification if you aren’t sure of something.
Language constantly changes and it can be difficult to stay on top of it.
If you’re in a chat room, and someone types “c2c,” you might google “c2c” online and think the person might be talking about rail train service to London, or asking if you “care to chat.” If, however, they are looking for cam to cam action or cock to cock play, you might be caught off guard.
In addition, there is pressure around being in the know with current lingo around sex.
However, in online adult dating sites or sex chat rooms, acronyms are used by both males and females.