First of all, select your ‘date’ or partner for the encounter.
For this, you need to be either a part of a casual sex community or have a profile on the leading dating apps like Tinder, Victoria Milan and C-Date. But never approach the lady or the man with a line ‘ Hey, sex tonight? (See also additional advice on these pages: C-date erfaringer and C-date erfarenheter) Be mannered and show you got some class.
From friends with benefits, exclusively dating to open relationships, the dating world seems to be more complex than just the courtships and boyfriend-girlfriends relationships of the past.
However, with this drawback comes a whole set of advantages like more options when it comes to dating styles and easier laying out of expectations for both you and the person you are dating.
Casual dating is not automatically and necessarily “romantic” in nature but there is a possibility of it blossoming into a fully commited romantic relationship since it involves getting to know each other personally outside of the bedroom, as opposed to say a no-strings-attached relationship where the basis of the existence of the relationship is 99% sexual.
Most casual daters report to find their match/es online, surprisingly not in a bar.
They said this measure increases the chance of compatibility.
There is also the more established Adult Friend Finder, which is explicitly for those seeking out like-minded sexual partners.
After all, who would want to spend discreet sex time with a person with no class.
Ask about the partner, her personal life (not details) and tell him or her how attractive you think they are and then ask over to spend time with them.
However when it comes to casual encounters and sex dates, things are very different and you people already know what you want from each other.