I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
We talked about the age difference once and he said he thought it was hot.
And he went on to say it would be even hotter if I were in my 30s or 40s !!??
No, R16, but I think some examination about 'not into guys my own age' is warranted.
I know lots of guys my age (40s) who are hung up on the idea that they want a 20-something boyfriend.
He's led a pretty full life and has experienced a lot, which means he has good stories to tell and helpful advice to give. The fact that he's been to just about every bar and restaurant in the city means he is now perfectly content spending a quiet evening at home, which suits me just fine.
I feel very fortunate because I've found someone who's mature, responsible, dependable, and considerate.
It's just not a reasonable demand..when I dig deeper I see that they are stunted emotionally in some way, and never had that 'perfect boyfriend' when THEY were in their 20's..can't move on from that until they get some young twink to fall in love with them. I meant to add that hooking up with younger guys is a whole 'nother story.
But, they tell themselves they are 'just attracted to younger guys' and they don't dig any deeper than that. Lots of young guys like older guys with big dicks, and good conversation/maturity. But it's unreasonable to believe we, at 40 something, can get ourselves a very young RELIABLE boyfriend. It does happen occasionally, and it isn't always due to money..it's RARE.
I can't imagine how a site geared toward the old/young combo would attract anyone other than pervs and golddiggers.