Even though she has decided to wait a few years until her daughter is grown to reenter the dating scene, she's confused about how to proceed.
This may mean seeking out your pastor for support, joining a Divorce Recovery group or visiting a Christian counselor.
Some divorced church-goers try to convince themselves that God's command to abstain from sex doesn't apply to them — that it's for the never-married crowd.
Jennifer's, Samantha's and John's concerns are common, because according to the U. Census Bureau, 19.3 million Americans get divorced each year, and many of them date and eventually remarry.
Perhaps you share their concerns, as you're also wondering how you can reenter the dating world after divorce — and do so according to God's standards. Divorce is the death of the dreams you had when you committed yourself "for better or for worse." As a Christian, you can't simply separate from your spouse one day and hit the dating field the next.
Not only does going slow give you time to heal, but it also helps you better assess those you date.
If you have taken the time to understand yourself and the dynamics that contributed to your divorce, you are more likely to make a godly choice in choosing the second time.
And each new boyfriend has developed a relationship with Sharon's son, Branden.
Unfortunately, Branden's father abandoned him, so it's understandable that he longs for a relationship with a father figure.
However, Scripture is clear that it doesn't matter if someone has been married or not, sex with someone other than your spouse is still fornication (I Thessalonians 4:3, I Corinthians 6:9).
Don't wait to put some practical boundaries in place, such as not staying at your date's home overnight.
One way to avoid the temptation of settling is to know what's acceptable and what's not, to both you and God, before you start looking for love.