Our current favorite is to watch porn together on a site like Rabbit, which allows you to video chat with a shared browser.
Man A: We had a shared Dropbox folder where we would leave videos of us masturbating for each other.
" Otherwise he could have been opening a sext while in office hours with a professor.
We'd also sext each other throughout the day via Whats App.
And at night — as long as the internet was good enough — we'd Skype each other and have mutual webcam sex.
Definitely the best thing that ever happened to us.
It was intimidating at first, but the first time happened pretty naturally — were just Skypeing regularly and one thing led to another.
I got him so turned on he had to excuse himself from the meeting he was leading to go jerk off in the bathroom before returning.
Woman B: Probably the time I accidentally sexted his home phone (where his parents live) at, like, 3 in the morning.
I also highly recommend starting with a laptop instead of a phone. Once you get comfortable, it's easy to move to a phone, but without practice, there will be a lot of phones plopping over and falling. It's easy to fall into the Fabio-novel stereotype cliches, or repeat things you've heard in porn.
If you're using a phone, make sure it's stable for the cum shot. I like using very real language, language I'd use during sex, imagining what I'd be doing and just slowing explaining every new movement, every new body part I'd touch ...
I would always make sure to preface that text with a quick "Are you alone?