Another is to practice with someone who isn’t afraid of hurting your feelings.In general what you’ll learn is that good conversation generally involves listening and responding to what others have to say, and occasionally throwing in something of your own.3 – Relax.This is another one of those tips that sounds so easy in the telling, but in reality is something truly difficult if you’re not one who possesses natural charm.
If you want a Jewish girl to like you, you have to give her something to work with.
Look at the world around you, find something that interests you, and get into it.
Jewish girls seem to respond better to guys that appear calm and relaxed, especially when around them.
They like it when guys appear to be in control, rather than shaking due to insecurity.
No matter how sweet you may be or kind or intelligent, if you smell bad or look as if you might if one were close enough to tell, you’re simply never going to get close enough to most girls to even find out if they may ever like you. If you grow your own food and live very cheaply (it can be done) you don’t necessarily need a job as you can make money off it. If you seek self-value from someone, thing, or activity, you will not find it. If you don’t value yourself – why would anyone else?
As adviser I personally believe that there are several aspects in a job that are more important than the money anyone can earn doing it or for Torah Observant male and these are: Working in a good environment, having enough free time to enjoy his private life and liking what he does are some of these characteristics. When you have a job, you can at least say you are trying to make things better for yourself.
In other words, if neither dominates the conversation.
People that do so are considered bores, and girls generally get tired and walk away.
It doesn’t matter if you are picking up the trash or making half the money you used to make.
If you are able to go out and earn your money, you will feel better about yourself and you will be helping to solve the problem as opposed to making things worse in North America ( for instance here in Canada). This is certainly an easy thing to advise, but clearly it’s a very difficult thing to achieve if you’re not the sort who naturally converses well. If you’re someone that has difficulty speaking with others, working on it will not only help you get girls to like you, it’ll also help in your interactions in just about every area of your life. Well, the simplest and most obvious way, is to study others that are good at it, then apply what you’ve observed.
Even starting your own business is a good idea (most Jews do). It’s a biblical example that a Torah Observant man have a job or occupaton.