Once married, there is a lot more to disagree about than during dating or even living together.
Some feelings of disappointment, aloneness and other reactions are normal, along with a let-down after the activity and excitement of the wedding period.
Often sex seems more routine as the initial 'rush' of sexual excitement and 'getting bonded' brain chemistry subsides and 'partner novelty' diminishes.
Are you tired of dating immature men who are only interested in sex, have no clue how to treat a lady or spend too much time hanging with their boys?
If so, perhaps it’s time for you to date an older man.
(See our article on Bonding & Marriage Success.) - Couples enjoy the benefits of a marriage that satisfies their needs and provides mutual support.
This leads to more profound intimacy over the years as the couple shares the experience of ups and downs. There is another risky transition after about 16 years (when the first child enters adolescence.
Kids transform the focus of a family and can dramatically increase the stress level.
There is simply so much more work, distraction, time pressure and potential conflict inherent in childrearing.The skills and habits that you develop in MST will facilitate your accommodation work and assist you in transforming your relationship to reach long-term success. With these stages in mind, you can see how important it is to begin the process of preparation early in your relationship. Don’t assume that older men are different than younger men when comes to using women as sex objects.Protect your heart and self-worth by not jumping into sex or accepting expensive gifts too quickly.(See article on cold feet.) - Couples learn more about themselves and each other in situations they havent faced together before.