A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.D.) I started to read about this subject back in high school.
I go to the supermarket and I see beautiful women, I go get my hair cut and there’s a breathtaking woman, I go eat lunch and I see an amazingly attractive woman.
Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there.
So I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.
Actually, I got more instant attention in Southern California; the “Latino effect.” The only thing that makes me stand out to women here is my height, thank God for that one tall great uncle! Regarldess, I look on the bright side and see this as an advantage.
It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.
Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.
I have lived my entire life, barring the past 5 years of course, in Southern California.
At first glance, Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.
When I first arrived here, there wasn’t yet a complete guide to dating paisa women.